The Language of Flowers reveals the deeper meanings of flowers in type and color. In ancient days, courtship often included hidden messages shared in the color of a flower left upon a lady’s doorstep, or in the type of flowers included in a bouquet. If the lady was interested, she might carry a certain color of flower as she strolled through the gardens. Her suitor would then know, just by looking at the flower in her hand or her hair, if she was smitten…or not.
The bygone era’s symbols are still with us today, and many gardeners choose their plants according to the meanings they hold, opting for positive messages like love, abundance, and loyalty, and avoiding those flowers that connote envy, lost love, hopelessness, and hatred.
As you plan your rose garden, keep in mind the following messages conveyed by different rose colors, so that your home can be surrounded by uplifting symbolism:
Red roses: Romantic love, passion, respect
White roses: Purity, innocence, humility, gentility, young love, ‘I Love You’
Yellow roses: Friendship, joy, caring, gladness, affection – not jealousy anymore, as was the message in the Victorian era.
Pink roses: Femininity, gentility, admiration, happiness, refinement, elegance, gratitude
Orange roses: Enthusiasm, desire, passion
Purple roses: Desire, enchantment, love at first sight
The tea rose carries a symbol of ‘I’ll remember you always,’ and as such, the tea rose has become a popular choice for remembrances and wedding-day tributes to departed relatives and friends.
Sharon Naylor is the author of over 35 books on family celebrations, including weddings, bridal showers, vow renewals, and more. She is beyond thrilled to be the new guest blogger for The Farm, and she will be posting inspirations and tips for your parties, get-togethers and big family moments throughout the year. Visit her website www.sharonnaylor.net for more on her books and articles.
